🌿🛸💖March 28, 2024💖🛸🌿
SET BOUNDARIES (Inner Child Oracle Cards)
Setting boundaries can often be an awkward and uncomfortable thing to do. NO is a powerful word and one that many of us have been taught to shy away from. We may feel as though it is our responsibility to create happiness or pleasure for others by saying YES, but this should not have to come at the cost of ourselves. If you are seeing this card, then it is most certainly time to utilize the word NO more frequently in your life.
It can be helpful to understand what drains you, depletes you, or makes you feel used... particularly after you said YES to something. Write down these answers and practice using the word NO around that which makes you feel used. We say yes for a variety of reasons, usually because we want someone to value us, but your value is immeasurable and you deserve the right to say NO. Saying NO can be an act of self care and how to set boundaries can depend on the situation. Sometimes you will need to be firm in setting boundaries, and sometimes setting them in a gentle way may feel best.
When your boundaries are clear, others know where they stand and you are able to give freely. If you are not clear where your boundaries lie, this causes confusion, resentment, and energetic cords to be planted. Saying NO and having clear boundaries is actually a spiritual act. The most giving, loving, compassionate people are those with the clearest boundaries. For when they say YES, they are able to give unconditionally.
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